Good evening Thrifties!
I am having a cozy Friday night at home sans hubby, thanks to some free hockey tickets and my cold that won't die. What better time to think excessively? I have pledged to be more organized this year, not so much a resolution as something that I always want to get around to... but all the same!
I would like to hear how people conquer their messes? I had a book recommended to me called "The Messies Manual" but alas it is only available Kindle style from Amazon, so I have not purchased yet. My mother in law gave me some advice over the holidays that I have really held on to: "Never try to learn cleaning and organizing behaviours from someone who is naturally neat. It will not stick."
What a great tidbit! I feel.... And quite liberating at the same time. I don't need to constantly feel guilty that I am not a "tidy". Instead I need to learn from people who actually struggle with their clutter and mess, not the people who have anxiety over a few dishes in the sink, because that will never be me!
So now I want to know, from all the truly horrifying houses out there, what has helped?
Taking it further than just cleaning, I am also trying to live out my "best intentions". I am the well-meaning friend who knows when your birthday is and plans to send a gift, and never actually forgets....just doesn't get around to it, which in reality, is probably worse.
Plan #1 is to get a proper planner and calendar and use them. Then when I go over my money or grocery list every week (haven't decided which) I will check up on my birthdays for the following two weeks, and add the people that I need gifts for, to my shopping list. This will give me enough time to buy and post a gift (if necessary) before the day has passed! This should work well, as my hubby and I always have gift money every week to accrue for all the birthdays and other gifts throughout the year.
Plan #2 is to buy a stove. This has nothing to do with Plan #1... We just put our stove in the basement and decided to buy a new one for ourselves, which we have not done.
When procrastinators unite in marriage....well, everyone is just surprised we got around to it!
Just a few thoughts for today :) I am going back to my couch (okay, I'm still on the couch, I'm going prostrate again) to ponder life and watch Netflix.
XOXO Thrifties
Stay tuned for my budget postings that I will share.